Flirting is such an integral part of the dating scene that we pretty much take it for granted. But what happens when we dig a little deeper and start asking questions about this bizarre behaviour.
What is flirting? Why do men flirt? Why do women flirt? How do you go about flirting? A new survey aims to shed light on the issue.
Results from a flirting test on Queendom.com reveal that men and women not only enjoy flirting, but many do it in order to get what they want. Their data showed that while women did have a slightly higher tendency to flirt, it was men who fared slightly better in terms of flirting expertise and techniques.
“Men aren’t as cavemen-ish when they flirt as some women may think,” according to Vrat Jerabek, president of the company. “For instance, 11 percent of men who took our test would easily and shamelessly flirt with a female officer to get out of a ticket, compared to 8 percent of women.
Men also used their flirting skills to get a deal on a car (20 percent), and a surprising 6 percent of them would actually date her in order to get a deal later on.”
Among women, 27 percent did admit they would do that ‘shyly picking off a lint on a guy’s sweater’ thing, but 21 percent also stated that they would flirt mercilessly with a bouncer to get into an exclusive club if they heard that their favorite celebrity would be there. And 6 percent of women admitted that they would go even further than that if they had to.
“We are certainly hot-wired to flirt by our genetics, and the best flirts have had the best chances of propagating. The body language used in flirting in various cultures has the same basic components intense eye contact, smile, hair toss and coy glances for the ladies, chest puffing in men… So there is certainly a genetic component,” Jerabek said in a release about the survey.
“Flirting is more than genes dictating our movements. It’s also a skill based on social learning and learning by observing adult subject matter experts.”
The study also revealed that men’s most popular flirting gestures when chatting with a woman are to smile and to lean in to show interest, while women smile and look deep into a man’s eyes. Other interesting tidbits:
45 percent of men would converse with someone they found hot at a funeral;
36 percent would ask that person out, while still at the funeral (55 percent and 19 percent respectively for women).
Only 10 percent of women would flirt with a male car salesman in order to get a better deal.
Apparently, both men and women love to flirt. It’s fun and relatively harmless. But, does flirting with an ulterior motive cross the line?
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